I’m Ollie Fox. I’m a 33-year-old who likes Star Trek and getting spanked.
In 2010 I got a BA in English from a private and extremely conservative Christian university, and in 2019 I used my writing skills to start writing about queer, kinky sex. In addition to the Queer Earthling sex blog, my work has been featured on SheVibe and Offbeat Home (the latter as Tessa Fox).
Queer Earthling features sex toy reviews, personal anecdotes, and thoughts on sex- and kink-related concepts. I’m passionate about sex toy safety, affordable sex toys, and of the idea that sexuality doesn’t have to follow a script. My spouse and I, both a-spec and nonbinary, have an extremely satisfying, albeit nontraditional, sex life, and I wanted to express to the world that your sexuality doesn’t have to look like everyone else’s to be good and fulfilling. I also write a lot about my life in a 24/7 nonsexual kink dynamic, and sometimes about being queer in the South. I occasionally write erotica.
A 33-year-old demisexual pan enby who is probably from Earth. Submissive. Nerdy. Identifies as a little, pet player, and service sub, despite generally forgetting to do any chores. When not sex blogging, hobbies include collecting dolls and making pixel art. My favorite toys include The Realm Silver Bullet, Satisfyer Yummy Sunshine, and just about any Uberrime dildo. (They/them, or fae/fem.)
A 42-year-old nonbinary person. Suspected but unconfirmed hot alien. Dominant. Nerdy. Married to Ollie Fox and Metamour. Furry artist who works on commission. Asexual/graysexual. Occasional contributor, constant beta-reader. Has a great Redbubble shop. (They/them.)
Other Key Players
A 46-year-old bisexual cis man. Planet of origin unknown. Married to Damien. Possibly nerdier than the others. Not involved in Ollie’s sex life but a very significant part of the household. Used to do a series about retro FLASH animations on his Tumblr. (He/him)
Ollie Fox’s sister. Married, has 937 kids. Surprisingly supportive. Claims not to be nerdy but plays tabletop RPGs and watches Doctor Who. The only straight person I know. (She/her)
Jinx and Lucky, two almost identical black cats, adopted February 2022. As of a few weeks in, Lucky (smaller) is the clingier, cuddlier cat who also loves to climb things; Jinx (larger) is a big fan of Metamour but would still rather just hang out or play than be touched most of the time. They enjoy looking out the window at the squirrels, ruining cat toys, and carefully investigating rooms they’ve already been in.
Hennessey and Percy, pictured in a few posts prior to January 2022. Hennessey (d. January 2022) was a big gray cat with very loud opinions; Percy (d. August 2021) was an orange and white goofball. Both are missed.
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